"We acknowledge all women who identify as mothers, including women who have not experienced childbirth, and that motherhood is an individual journey and discourages comparing and competitive behaviours."
Silver Sirens - Guiding Principles
One of the aspects I cherish most about our monthly social lunches is the opportunity to exchange insights with our community of women over 50, sharing our aspirations and the obstacles we face.
Judith Mendoza-White, an Argentinian author who graciously hosted last month's gathering, has kindly contributed an enlightening piece on the shifting attitudes towards motherhood in Argentina. I hope you find her perspective as thought-provoking as I did!
In her writing, Judith highlights the recent evolution of motherhood in Argentine society, emphasising the emergence of the term 'maternal':
"In recent years, the conversation surrounding motherhood has undergone significant transformations across the globe. As societal norms evolve and gender roles become increasingly fluid, traditional notions of parenting are being challenged and reshaped to reflect these changes. In Argentina, this evolution has led to the creation of a new verb that encapsulates the dynamic role of the mother: "maternar."
'Maternar' refers to the act of performing motherly duties and responsibilities, transcending biological gender and familial ties. The term embodies the idea that anyone can provide motherly care, protection, guidance, encouragement, and education to a child. In essence, "maternar" recognises and celebrates the diverse ways in which individuals can embody the role of a mother.
The introduction of "maternar" into the Argentine lexicon represents a progressive step toward inclusivity and a broader understanding of family dynamics. It acknowledges the importance of nurturing and supportive roles within a child's life, regardless of one's gender or marital status.
As the discourse on motherhood continues to evolve in Argentina and beyond, it is crucial to appreciate the significance of such linguistic developments. The creation of the term "maternar" not only reflects a changing society but also serves as a powerful reminder of the vital role that diverse forms of parenting play in shaping the lives of children and, ultimately, the future of our world."
- Judith Mendoza-White
As Judith's piece underscores, this linguistic development signifies a broader cultural shift towards inclusivity and a recognition of the diverse ways in which individuals can embody the role of a mother. I believe embracing and celebrating these evolving perspectives can foster a more supportive and compassionate community for all women within our group and beyond.
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