Let’s face it—by the time we reach midlife, most of us have accumulated enough “stuff” to rival a small department store. There are drawers stuffed with gadgets we’ve long forgotten how to use, closets bursting with clothes that we swear we’ll fit into again someday, and let’s not even talk about the “junk drawer” (or, in some cases, the junk room). It’s amazing how much we can hold onto “just in case.” But here’s the thing: if we haven’t used that fondue set in the last decade, maybe it’s time to admit that fondue just isn’t in our future.
Decluttering in midlife is like a grand liberation mission—freeing ourselves from the weight of all that extra baggage (both literally and figuratively). It’s not just about tidying up; it’s about reclaiming our space and making room for our next adventure. As someone once said: "You can't move on to writing your next chapter while you're still re-reading the last one." As we pare down, we start to see that what we’re really doing is making room for what truly matters.
Beyond the obvious benefit of not having to dodge avalanche zones in our own homes, decluttering offers a fresh perspective on life. It’s a reminder that we’ve reached a point where quality really does trump quantity. Those mismatched socks? They’ve had their moment. The collection of hotel shampoos? Time to let go (and maybe treat yourself to some fancy hairdresser-approved shampoo).
But here’s the best part: as we clear out the clutter, we start to discover little treasures we’d forgotten about. Like that favorite book you’ve been meaning to reread or the photo album that reminds you of some of your best moments. Decluttering can be a trip down memory lane, only this time, you get to choose what to bring forward into this next chapter of your life.
So, as you tackle those closets and cupboards, remember that it’s not just about getting rid of stuff. It’s about lightening your load, both physically and mentally. And hey, if you happen to find that missing earring along the way, consider it a little reward from the universe for a job well done.
In midlife, we’ve earned the right to live in spaces that bring us joy—not stress. And if that means saying goodbye to a few dust bunnies and that exercise bike/treadmill that’s been doubling as a clothes rack, then so be it!
Jody Webster
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